Throughout my course of writing online I have noticed a wide variety of reactions. Some were glad and ‘gained’ something from what they reading, and others didn’t, while others had rather negative reactions.
And since I don’t write out of boredom or caprice, and I want my readers to gain something good from reading, I have decided more than once to close the store, re-examine and see what could be improved.
Some would like you to be like this and some others like that. Some would try to understand why you are the way you are, or just let you be, while some others wouldn’t. And being just a person couldn’t keep all satisfied and still write. I would need to be God.
So now I have come up with an idea (as well as appetite) to tailor-make my communication for each person individually. And that means individual counseling, for those who need and want it.
At the moment I do not intend to be a professional ($) so that means I will do it for free, for the sole purpose of helping somebody help her/himself. My intention is to have somebody enhance his/her own self-determination and win more at life, instead of telling her/him what the truth is, what he should do etc. My ‘pay’ is that when that occurs to another, it also occurs to me as well.
I am convinced that everyone is up to the task of living successfully, despite circumstances, and in accordance to what that person considers to be success. And my intention is to have a person put himself out of a maze he might be in, and create a straight line between himself and what he, himself and nobody else wants. Yes, I have faith that one’s own true will is always good for the person and those around him, as long as it’s true, and that’s what I want for myself and for others, as well.
The counseling will be a series of steps, or a single step the person can take to head towards that direction. And yes, that can easily be done online too. If we were all in one location more things could be done. But now I’ll be glad to help as much as I can, with what I have, and that doesn’t have to be a small thing, it can be huge.
I am not affiliated with psychology nor with any religion. I just know some things that can be really useful. Also, I do this on my own volition and I will only do it as much and for as long as that exists. It would be absurd to say that I would like to enhance somebody’s self-determination while my own was overshadowed by obligation, money or something else, right?
I will probably need to set up a proper webpage at some point, but until them, anyone who wishes to communicate something, can freely do so here or by sending an e-mail at my address firstname.lastname@example.org.
Have a nice day 🙂