You’d probably find it rude is somebody asked from you to do something and kept on insisting on it without your consent. It would be much much worse if the same person asked you one thing and then scorned you for doing it, no? It would make you feel upset and confused, no? Well, that is the case when we ask from people to be normal (to be the same as the average other, as the environment) while on the same time we ask from them to be champions, to become rich, to ‘reach their potential’ whatever that means. It is a filthy trick, and there are filthy intentions behind it –to have everybody lose. In a game whose rules contradict themselves, or are not set at all, only those who made their own rules could win.